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Self Pleasure With
Your Partner
There is almost nothing as sexually intimate as sharing in a mutual masturbation session with a totally hot woman. Picture it – you two are getting all steamy together on the couch. Foreplay is going well, but you are still not really sure that you are touching her in exactly the right place. So you ask here to show you where and how she achieves maximum pleasure.
Initially, she is caught off guard by your request, but because she is comfortable with her sexuality and herself, you need only do some minimal convincing. As it turns out, she is totally turned on by your request, and flattered that you want to take the next step towards intimacy with her. And so she agrees, and you help her slip her panties off, then sit back, unzip, relax, and enjoy…
Masturbation is often thought of as an individual activity, which takes place in the privacy of a bathroom, bed or shower. However, self pleasure is one of the most pleasing activities in the world, and is really best when shared amongst lovers.
Unfortunately, so may of us are used to keeping our masturbation sessions private, that it can be somewhat embarrassing to bring them “out of the closet” so to speak. But remember – everyone does it, and there is absolutely nothing about self-pleasure to be ashamed of!
Anyone, man or woman, who tells you that they do not engage in masturbation, is totally lying. Not everyone, however, has crossed the intimacy barrier into mutual or shared masturbation. Self pleasure is one of the most personal and intimate experiences in life, and the idea of sharing it with another person takes a little getting used to.
You’ll find that some women don’t even like to talk about self pleasure or admit to doing it – this is usually because they feel some kind of guilt or embarrassment.In today’s liberal culture, however, few topics are left “untouched”, including the subject and act of masturbation. Broaching the idea of a mutual masturbation session remains, however, a somewhat “sticky” (…literally!) subject. So what should your approach be?
Making jokes or passing comments about masturbation is a good way to test the waters. If she seems offended by your references, or taken back by your comfort with the subject, then this may not be the ideal woman with whom to achieve masturbation intimacy.
However, if she smiles or shows comfort with the subject, your opportunity for shared orgasms is relatively assured! Remember, the best way to raise her comfort level is to get her to talk openly about the subject. Make sure that you carefully select the right time to broach this kinky subject.
It is a good idea to wait a few dates and try give a woman the chance to climax with you several times through intercourse before you broach the idea of shared sexual self pleasure. She will find it easier to pleasure herself if it is a natural experience with you, even if she is feeling a little bit shy at first. So build up to this sexy encounter in your relationship, in order for it to be truly intimate and sexy you really do need time to get to know each other first.
When it comes to the great occasion, make sure to choose a relatively comfortable and neutral environment. The back seat of your pick up truck is not ideal. Your candlelit living room of bedroom is much better. Take time to make the maiden voyage of this encounter a positive and sensual one, so that you can be assured to engage in this intimate and sexy pleasure again and again.
If it becomes a regular activity in your sexual relationship, then feel free to introduce new locations into the mix. Maybe you get bored on a long road trip, or want to spice things up on a plane ride overseas? Mutual masturbation is a shared activity that is logistically easier than sexual intercourse, but which can be just as rewarding.
As much as it is enjoyable, the intimacy achieved in a shared masturbation session is also inspiring. You’ll find that once you have given respect to a woman in her most personal and intimate state, there is nothing she won’t do with you, or in your presence. Make sure that you remain encouraging and positive, and your sexual relationship with this lady is likely to really flourish!
But what if the opposite happens and your forays into masturbation intimacy are awkward or unsuccessful? Is there hope to move past the experience?
What you must realize is that you have ventured well into this woman’s comfort zone. In order to win back her confidence and trust after an intimate moment gone wrong (like she freaks out or gets upset with you for some reason…), you may have to take a few steps backwards – sexually speaking. Linger in foreplay for extended periods, or practice long sensual massages.
You may have simply broached the “m” word a little too soon with her! So don’t write off the hope of self-pleasure intimacy altogether with this lady, but do plan to take small steps. For example, you might encourage her to touch herself other places, and make a point of complimenting her for her beauty and sexuality. Chances are, she will be feeling sexy enough for another trial masturbation session in no time!
There really are far more benefits associated with mutual masturbation than you might initially realize. First of all, shared self pleasure can be practices when intercourse is not an ideal option (say during her “special” time of
the month).
Masturbation can also help to perfect both of your sexual performance. Say you or your partner have trouble achieving climax, or the opposite – that you climax too quickly… well, the old mantra still hold true: practice makes perfect.
Encouraging each other through mutual masturbation will only strengthen your sex life down the road, so what are you waiting for?
Once you have achieved the perfect relationship of self-pleasure with your partner, there may be no end to the sexually inspiring intimacies that you will share. Next thing you know, she will be the one initiating this great experience and you will be lucky enough to watch her please herself over and over again, as you do just the same… |