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Is She Bad In Bed? The goal of any shared successful encounter is always, of course, mutual satisfaction. But what if the techniques of the woman who you are with do not quite measure up? If her weak sexual skills fail to make your knees feel weak, your heart pound fast, or your breath run short - is there anything you can do about it without offending her or hurting her feelings? Yes! The good news is that there are several ways that you can guide, instruct, and encourage women who have less than impressive skills in the bedroom. The key is to be kind, positive, subtle and sexy as you communicate your hopes for a more satisfying sexual experience.
So how do you refine her bedside manner in a manner that is kind and constructive? The key is to focus on the positive. Think hard and find something that she is doing right and tell her that “I really like it when you do…” ( fill in the blanks yourself here!) Or if she manages to hit a happy place respond immediately with an encouraging comment like “Oh ya, that’s the spot.” If you are not inclined to communicate verbally during sexual encounters, then overcoming her shortcomings will be more difficult – in the least, you will have to offer some moans and groans of pleasure or encouragement when (or if!) she does something that you enjoy. So what if you have remained kind and positive towards her but the encounter has failed to take a turn for the better? Well, then it’s time to for you to offer some more obvious instruction and encouragement. The key here is subtlety. For example, rather than pointing or instructing her in a specific direction, try to gently guide her there. Keep your hands involved in the encounter and keep them in constant motion. Then when you use them to make minor adjustments (to yourself or to her), she will not take it as a “correction” to her ways.
You might have to be slightly “creative” here – in other words, do not be afraid to tell a little white lie. Maybe you have done it upside down and backwards before and you how great it is. However, she does not want to hear you compare the present encounter with a past one and be warned – NEVER compare her to one of your past lovers. When it comes to encouraging a woman towards greater sexual success, the most important thing is to stay sexy. She may not be putting you in the mood with her techniques, and it may not be the most mind-blowing encounter of your life, but if you want her to get any better it is up to you to keep that sexy feeling alive. Think of something sexy and make the best of the situation – after all, sex is sex. Another tip - when it comes to providing subtle and positive feedback towards her, use your sexiest voice or whisper in her ear. Alternately, you might turn the tables altogether. If the encounter is going nowhere is a hurry, know when to change things up or throw in the towel altogether. You might make her pleasure (rather than your own) the focus of your attention, or you might finish as quickly and kindly as possible and go home to a cold shower. However, remember to consider the possible consequences of your decision. If you know that a return engagement is not worth your time, you really have nothing
Another way to break up the momentum of an encounter going terribly wrong is to use your imagination. If things are already going poorly for you, you really have nothing to lose. You might suggest a sex game – anyone for a round of Doctor - Patient, or maybe Teacher - Student? By introducing role-playing, you allow yourself to provide instruction as part of the game, rather than real life. Games of dare can also help introduce ideas into the open that might otherwise seem inappropriate, or that might be misconstrued as sexual “assignments.” If you think she might be open to something more racy, she might find inspiration in porn – and maybe learn a few tricks at the same time. Watching others may be the best way for her to learn for herself, and it gets you off the hook from offending or criticizing her. However, not all women enjoy porn and especially not all the time – so pick you porn and your time wisely! There is hope for a woman with poor skills in the bedroom, however it is up to you to kindly, subtlety and sexily encourage her to greatness. Be positive about the encounter and she is likely to respond in the same manner. Recognize her potential early, do your best to refine her sexual techniques, but also know when to give up hope. If you communicate any serious frustration with her, chances are that things will get worse or end prematurely. In the end, there is always the possibility that a woman with weak skills will not be capable of much improvement. Some people are, and will always remain, bad in bed. Give her a fighting chance, but also consider that there may be someone better suited to your desires and hopes in the bedroom… Why should you buy the internet's largest sex guide?
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