How To Watch Porn With Your Girlfriend

Despite popular belief, women do enjoy watching erotic pornography. Just because your girlfriend hasn’t mentioned it to you A. Doesn’t mean she doesn’t like it, B. Doesn’t mean she hasn’t watched it and C. Doesn’t mean she won’t watch it when you’re not around. So, why not watch it together and use erotic videos as tools in improving your sex life. One obstacle may be how you bring up the subject of watching porn together, without upsetting your partner? If you think you are unable talk about it (consider taking her out for dessert when bringing up the subject) think about printing pieces of this article out, buying a romantic card and write a short note as to how you are interested in spicing up your love life, pleasing her and making sex the best it can be, together.

No matter what sex you are, both women and men can “get off” fantastically if their bodies and minds are both stimulated. It feels great to be touched, kissed, licked and stroked, it feels even better if your mind and imagination are as stimulated as your body.

Everyone knows it takes more time to get a woman aroused than it does a man. So try incorporating women friendly porn in your foreplay regime in order to warm up your partner’s engine. Female friendly porn promotes the female and male orgasm, is geared towards female fantasies, casts females in the roles of women with power, brains and sex appeal all while female sexual pleasure is centred at the heart of the video, steering the plot. Women have an important role in this style of erotica; they are not just objects as they are in many mainstream porn flicks. It’s not hard to find female friendly porn if you’re interested in looking for it, just read on...

The following is a list of female friendly erotica seperated into levels, starting with appropriate erotic videos for beginners all the way up to movies for the skin-flick aficionado. Keep in mind that a good place to start when watching porn with your partner is to ensure that all participants in the video are (and look) of legal age, that the video considers female pleasure (and isn’t all about the come-in-the-face “money shot”), girl on girl porn doesn’t dominate the whole video (women want to see more than what they see in the shower every morning), and yes, a plot does help. Believe it or not, lots of women watch porn alone, so why not try watcing it together? Have fun, put on a glove and roll it.

How-To Videos
A How-To video may be your answer to introducing some visual stimuli into your love life if your partner has been turned off by mainstream porn, is shy, or unsure about sharing this sort of experience with someone else. To persuade your partner into pressing the play button, tell her that you are interested in becoming the lover she always wanted. Let her know that you would like to watch a how-to video together to see what she’s interested in. These videos are a great way to start talking about sex with one another, you find out what she wants and she finds out what you want. Some women feel shy about talking about their bodies and what turns them on. Women are not brought up to love their bodies, but once they start, there’s no stopping them. By watching How-To videos, you not only get the porn-ball rolling but will probably learn something at the same time!

Tantric Journey To Female Orgasm, by Debbie Sundahl.
Good for couples looking to spice up their love life. This video is great as it incorporates the trendy, yet ancient art, of Tantra. This heterosexually orientated video divulges the G-spot, Tantric basic, erotic massage and provides insights on communication. Highly recommended.

Heterosexual Fun
A male pleasing a woman is a very good thing. Female friendly heterosexually centered erotica is hot and entertaining. The story of the video is usually about a woman and a man, yet, don’t be surprised if fantasies start running wild, and anything goes. A “quiet” evening at home well spent.

My Surrender
Recommended for first time porn audiences. Jeanna Fine stars as a videographer who specializes in creating personal porn for couples and their sexual fantasies. The acting is good and the sexual connection between characters is charming. Directed by Royalle, this movie concentrates on female pleasure, sexual emotion and internal and synchronized orgasms. All heterosexual scenes.

Justine
Directed by Paul Thomas, this movie follows the sexual plots of Roxanne Blaze, as she falls for both a father and his son. The actors and actresses are sexy and natural, and the sex seems unprompted and unscripted. A refreshing video, unlike most mainstream porn, good for first time viewers.

Phat Beats
Diana De Voe plays a sultry singer on her rise to stardom. Her conniving manager wants to keep her focused on her career and schemes to break up her relationship with male-model Mark Anthony. Electric connections and orgasmic sexual performances flourish in this smouldering production featuring an all people of colour cast. Unlike most porn movies there are no scenes of sex between women.

Urban Friction
This video is a top recommendation for couples exploring their fantasies. The actors are young, sexy, stylish, realistic and enjoyable to watch. Mikka and her boyfriend Poochie get off on living out their fantasies. They’ve slept with another woman, and now Mikka wants her satisfaction with two men. From the creators of Libido Magazine.

White Lightning
A sex-dipped mystery with spellbinding erotic performances. Chloe, featured as Ginger Lynn, is the girl next door who seeks counselling from Nina Hartley, due to a cheating husband and dissatisfaction in her sex life. Hartley, a sex positive therapist, urges Ginger Lynn to express her fantasies and more. With authentic female orgasms, natural bodies and sexual scenarios make this movie is recommended for couples.

Bad Wives
The Movie Of The Year Award, 1999, by Adult Video News. This suburban sexcapade entails the lives of two bored housewives who bag their own hunky snacks at the supermarket checkout counter. Surrealistic sex in the meat-locker, and a tantalizing three way wins this video our recommendation.

Older Women, Hotter Sex
This compilation of six sexy clips prove that like a fine wine, things only get better with age. Porn legends Marilyn Chambers, Keisha, Ginger Lynn and Nina Hartley depart from the industry standard, where 25 is considered old.

Hot and Steamy
If you are accustomed to the porn scene and are looking for something intelligent and hot then try the following female friendly erotic movies. Enjoy the steamy acting, sexy plots and hot scenes from the following movies made to get you going. And few more actors and actresses…

Eyes of Desire, Part 2
Breaking the mould of traditional porn, real life husband and wife, Missy and Mickey G. star as star as voyeuristic strangers in a compelling relationship of sexual obsession. Missy’s forbidden fantasies of exhibitionism, anonymous sex, and anal play are realized at the urgings of her mysterious paramour. Steamy sex, arousing dialogue and stellar acting.

Edge Play
This lightning paced sexual adventure starts with an unbelievable scene of exhibitionism and a drenching female ejaculation. Marilyn Chambers is titillated by her friend’s sexual adventures, but it takes an invitation from a mysterious couple for her to shed her inhibitions like a snake sheds its skin. Voyeurism, group sex, carefully staged abductions and fierce public sex with strangers are in store along with arousing performances and gripping male and female orgasms. Refreshing absence of facial ejaculations.

Thighs Wide Open
Like Kubrick’s film, a sexy couple, whose passions have cooled, sheds sexual inhibitions at a party that will change their world. Lots of female orgasms, anal sex scenes, and one stand out all-female scene.

Being With Julie Ashton
A nerdy guy trying to break into the porn world discovers a secret portal that projects him into the body of whoever is having sex with porn star Julie Ashton. This spoof on the Hollywood release Being John Malkovich, also pokes fun at the world of porn. Charged sex, lots of anal, gender bending and more time spent on female arousal than most mainstream porn movies makes this a comedy worth watching.

Dinner Party At Six
Can a porn take on a sensitive issue like racism and still manage to be hotter than hell? This one, believe it or not, can. A take-off on the groundbreaking mainstream film "Guess Who's Coming to Dinner?” DPA6 delivers a multi-racial cast, refreshingly frank plot and through-the-roof performances from some of the best names in the business.

Masque
Asia Carrera does drag in this first rate sizzling story of three hetero couples fulfilling kinky fantasies. The acting in this flick is stimulating and excellent as is the portrayal of sexual heat and good humour amongst six friends who are burning to sleep with each other. An memorable story about giving voice to fantasies and having them fulfilled contains lots of hot hetero sex and truly distinguished lesbian scenes.

Other Notable Movies…

Babylon Pink (anything goes 70’s classic)

Pandora's Mirror (sex fantasies revealed in a thrift shop mirror, early eighties before plastic surgery and shaving)

Exstacy (a married woman’s anonymous trysts at an underground sex club)

Bobby Sox (the seedy side of stardom revealed, lots of female orgasms)

Candida Royale's The Bridal Shower (primarily for straight female audiences, a group of women reminiscing about their sexual experiences, like the life channel, but with sex)

The key to releasing sexual inhibitions is to provide your partner with whatever is necessary for her to feel sexy, safe and protected. By watching female friendly porn together you can enhance sexual pleasure and communication. Try it, you never know, we might like it!