Lovecentria - Her "Big O" Problems

It’s a common problem – you want to have sex all the time but your girlfriend does not enjoy it as much as you because she’s just not having any orgasms! She’s tried faking it; she’s tried talking to you about it; she’s tried pleasuring herself; and she’s tried using sex toys but it seems that nothing seems to work!

You are blaming yourself, but don’t worry guys, it’s not entirely your fault. Men and women are designed very differently, and each woman is different too, so the same tricks that worked for your last girlfriend may not cut it with your current partner.

Here are some reasons why she may not be having an orgasm when you are going at it and things you can do to improve her sex life.

Why Isn’t She Having An Orgasm?
To a lot of men, the idea of having sex and not having an orgasm just seems crazy. After all, it just takes a little friction for most guys and before you know, they’ve come and gone.

Women’s bodies are different than men’s so don’t just assume that the same thrusting that makes you come will even turn her on! Women need direct clitoral stimulation and since the clitoris isn’t located inside the vagina, thrusting your penis inside her hard and fast is probably not going to do much for her, even if you like it!

Of course there are other reasons she may not be having an orgasm during sex. The stress of wondering what’s wrong with her may have made her tense and uncomfortable during sex and that can contribute to her performance in the bedroom. Plus, if she knows that you know she’s having trouble coming, then she’s going to feel extra pressure, particularly if you keep asking her if she’s close to having an orgasm.

What Can You Do To Help?
Since no one woman’s sexual problems are the same, there’s no definitive solution for the bedroom problems that you are she are experiencing. One of the most important things to do first is to communicate with her to find out exactly what’s happening. Lots of women would rather fake their orgasms than let their partners know that they aren’t coming during sex. They’re afraid that they are to blame, and lots of women are afraid that their partners will get mad at them for being “bad” at sex.

That’s why it’s up to you to be understanding and sensitive in the bedroom. Pay attention to how she reacts to your movements in the bed and to having sex.

If she’s not having an orgasm you should be able to tell and if she’s faking it, try to talk to her about sex afterward to determine how she liked it.

When things are open and honest between the two of you, you’ll be able to talk about what’s bothering her and how to fix it.

Foreplay And Oral Sex
When in doubt, go back to the basics of foreplay and oral sex. If she is having trouble coming during sex, then spend more time performing oral sex on her. Don’t try to maneuver her body in a variety of positions thinking that if you nail her while she’s contorted in some kind of uncomfortable Kama Sutra position that she’ll suddenly start having the most powerful orgasms ever. Without careful attention being paid to her clitoris, you’ll have a hard time bringing her to orgasm.

When it comes to oral sex, your technique is very important. It shouldn’t just be about getting her wet so that you can get inside her. Rather, it should be about exploring what makes her feel very good. While you are going down on her, use your hands to explore her body, including her breasts, her bum and anywhere else you can reach. Oral sex, after all, shouldn’t be only about concentrating on her clitoris, although that is a very important part of it!

Accessories May Help
If nothing seems to be working to help her relax and get turned enough to have an orgasm, then it’s time to bring out the big guns and buy some sex toys and other sex accessories!

Start with something simple like massage oil that heats up when rubbed into the skin. You can start by giving her a back massage which can turn into an all-over body massage to get her warmed up.

Then, if she’s never used a vibrator or a dildo before, you should break her in slowly. Consider getting those rubberized, texturized sleeves that can fit onto your finger. Then use your finger to rub her clitoris or move inside her.

From there, you can move onto a simple vibrator. Get one that’s the size of a small egg, not the size of a 12” penis, unless you think scaring her into having an orgasm will work. These small vibrators can be held against the clitoris for direct stimulation. She can use the vibrator when she’s alone or when she’s having sex with you. Perhaps all that’s missing when you are having sex is more clitoral stimulation! You never know – maybe a small vibrator will change her entire experience in the bedroom.

Other ways you can try to get things hotter in the bedroom is to find out what makes her feel sexy and go with that. Candles, lingerie, romantic movies or any number of other things can make a woman feel turned on. And when she feels sexy and turned on, she might just overcome that barrier in the bedroom.

Conclusion
Don’t get frustrated, thinking that you are the worst lover in the world. Lots of women have trouble coming regularly during sex, so you shouldn’t be hard on yourself, unless of course you aren’t trying to figure out how to fix things! Remember to communicate with your girlfriend on how things are working in the bedroom and work together to fix any problems you may have.

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