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Have Sex Like A Rock Star
Everyone knows that rock stars live extraordinary lives and have the most electrifying sex lives of all time. But do you really have to be the lead singer in a famous rock band to have such an exciting and stimulating sex life of your own?
If your musical skills fall short of rock star status – do not fear – you can still make women fall at your feet like rock star groupies. The key is to re-create the rock star spirit in yourself, and women will be following you around like puppy dogs.
In order to reach rock star status in the bedroom you will need personify the man, the music and mojo that gets your favorite rock star laid on a regular basis. So pick a rock n’ roll role model, and get ready to re-invent your sex life.
The primary reason why so many women are attracted to rock stars is attitude. Rock stars live the party lifestyle, and women find their presence more stimulating than that of ordinary men.
Go to any rock concert and you’ll notice women losing all emotional control at the mere sight of the band members. What is it about the rock star attitude and presence that makes women swoon?
The answer is fairly simple – they want to be controlled by the exciting and powerful spirit of the man and his music. In order to introduce this spirit to your own sex life, you need to adopt an attitude that is just as powerful, famous, carefree and creative as your favorite star.
Think of “being famous” as a state of mind, and soon you will achieve it. Sure it means introducing a little more cockiness and confidence into your persona, but it also involves believing in yourself – as if you could be a famous rock star any day, if you ever really wanted to be.
In the bedroom, your new rock star persona needs to exude power and raw sex appeal. Women want to feel like they are in the presence of greatness, and the key to this is keeping them on the edge of their seats. Don’t do what they expect of you – do the opposite.
If a girl wants to get busy on the couch with you and a romantic movie, then grab her for a naked dance on the front porch. If she wants to give you a long slow massage, dye each other’s hair instead. Keep things personal and intimate, but keep also keep it enthralling.
If she seems kinky – try to push her limits. Bring the biggest toys out of the tickle trunk at the start of the night. Be brutally honest and charming with her and keep her on edge. Make your woman stay up all night long doing all different activities, sexual and otherwise, and she will want to come back the next night for more. Plus she will tell all of her friends that you know how to do it just like a rock star.
Once you have control of your rock star attitude, it’s time to make the evening even more authentic with some really good rock n’ roll music.
Choose a rock n’ roll idol whose life and music you can identify with. Their music should serve as an inspiration in your life, and even more so in the bedroom. Not only do you have to rock your woman with the music, however, you also need to woo her with other rock star props.
A famous rock star, for example, would not sleep in fuzzy old plaid sheets. Invest in some high quality cotton or silk sheets in a bright colour, and she will be imagining her naked body against them at first sight.
Also, have some impressive wine, champagne or martini glasses on hand, along with the sexiest elixirs that you can imagine, and maybe some mood lighting. A rock star is used to being surrounded by lights, music and beautiful things – so you should as well.
When it comes to your appearance, take some hints from famous rock stars and musicians. Wear clothing and shoes that are original Boat shoes and loafers, for example, will not do but animal print cowboy boots, motorcycle wear, or cool designer athletic shoes will get her adoration. Old briefs, bunny or flower covered boxer shorts should stay in the drawer, while you strut around in a sexy muscle shirt, ripped jeans with black boxer briefs underneath.
Once you have presented yourself in a powerful and edgy manner, it’s time to get her feeling your sexy musical emotions. Women are attracted to men who are in touch with their emotions – rock stars present the range of all emotions on stage and this makes women so attracted to them. What you need to do in the bedroom is re-create the emotional intensity of a stage performance.
With music blasting in the background, try to get her excited, maybe a little angry, frustrated, surprised, even a bit sad. Make her laugh, and maybe even cry – she will enjoy the emotional roller coaster as long as you maintain control, keep it fun and sexy, and encourage her to control her feelings as you do your own.
When it comes to getting busy in the bedroom, you might tease her, push away, then grab her, or slap her ass when she tries to walk away. Anything that keeps things exciting will keep her coming back for more. The key here is to walk a fine line between offending her, and increasing her attraction. Let her know that you are in control and act as if you assume that she is at your rock n’ roll mercy – she will love to play along all night!
Keeping her guessing in bed also means not hanging around in the bed all evening, and trying lots of different thing. Take it to the kitchen, or the patio, or to your neighbour’s back yard.
Real rock stars do not have missionary sex, and you will not settle for it either! So throw her up against the mirror for a while, fold her over the side of the couch, put her on the hood of the car, or steam it up in the shower. Make this a night for you both to remember.
When it comes to your rock star moves, you must try and embody the mojo of a true rock n’ roll star. You must know how to move your body – practice now if you have to. Even if you are not a great dancer, which many rock stars are not, you must know how to move your body in sexy and powerful ways.
Your hips are key – thrusting, gyrating, penetrating motions will make you seem like a real star to her. Also, be expressive with your face, hands and body. Throw your hands in the air like you just don’t care, point to her, wink – act like you are on a real rock n’ roll stage and she is your sexiest and most captive audience. She will love to play along and you will enjoy the spirit of rock star sex for hours to follow.
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