Dr. Foreplay - Lap Dancing, Horniness & Masturbation

Dr. Foreplay,
When I have sex I can go on and on and can have sex 4 times in a row after I cum. I want to have sex all the time and I masturbate all the time. The problem is when my girlfriend is not horny, I watch porn and masturbate and she doesn't like this. What can I do?

Signed,
Vern

Vern,
Vern you animal. it seems that you are at your sexual prime and unfortunately your female isn't. What you can do is try to space out the periods you have sex. Try having sex once in the morning and once at night. From there you shouldn't be as sex starved. As for the porn thing, try to watch it when she is not around. All guys watch porn. It is just the way they are programmed. I think it has something to do with testosterone, but I could be wrong.

Dr. Foreplay,
Can you give me some tips and tricks on giving my boyfriend a lap dance?

Signed,
Cheri

Cheri,
If you want to give the ultimate lap dance you have to learn the art of teasing. It has to deal with giving a little and then taking it back. What your guy is used to, is you giving in to him when you have sex. In other words, he is the one that controls the situation. This time, if you are giving him the lap dance, you must control the situation. Let him touch, but not too much. If he goes overboard, feel free to take his hands of your body. On the other hand, you can touch whatever you want. Now for the dancing, you can learn a lot by going to strip clubs. These girls get paid for teasing me. Learn some of their dance moves. And finally, lots of men find garter belts, stockings, and high heels erotic. Have this under your clothing and give him a peek during the first dance.

Most of all, make sure it is fun for both of you!

Dr. Foreplay,
What are some great positions for people that are overweight?

Signed,
Jessi

Jessi,
People who are overweight can also have sex and try out the regular positions. There are 5 main categories: male superior, female superior, side by side, oral sex, and rear entry. Although flexibility may not be a option for people who are overweight, you can still engage in sex using couches and chairs. It is important to note that more foreplay, and stimulation orally and with your hands can help make sex more enjoyable.

Dr. Foreplay,
I am in my late teens and have been with my boyfriend for about two and a half years. He is three years older than me and more experienced sexually. I lost my virginity to him and am becoming more comfortable sexually with him, but as of late, he wants to cum in my mouth while I am performing oral sex. I personally do not want to do this and feel that it’s disgusting. I am just afraid that if I don’t do the little things, then it won’t be pleasurable for him.

Signed,
Jasmine

Jasmine,
Since you are not sexually experienced, I can see why you might be disgusted. All you have to do is tell him to take it slow and give you some time to adjust to the situation. Instead of swallowing, what you can do is let him come and use your finger to swab up a little of his semen. Test it out and see how you feel about the taste. If you can handle the taste then you can try taking a little in next time. From there you can move forward into swallowing. What you have to realize is that you are in control here. If you don’t want to swallow then feel free to spit it out. Some of my girlfriends make sure they have some water to drink after they swallow. You can also spit his ejaculate into the cup if you don’t feel like swallowing at that time.

Dr. Foreplay,
I am female and enjoy masturbating, but I want to try something new. What are some other ways that a female can masturbate?

Signed,
Harriet

Harriet,
Well there are the traditional ways of masturbation such as using a dildo or vibrator. There are some advanced vibrators that have attachments for clitoral stimulation. And there is my favorite, using a massaging shower head. If you have one that is remove able and has adjustable speed settings, you can use it to stimulate your entire body including your clitoris. Just make sure you aren't late for work because of it!

Dr. Foreplay,
When I ask my female friends, I get different answers for the question: “Does size Matter?” My question is why wouldn’t a 5 inch cock feel different than a 9 inch one?

Signed,
Brad

Brad,
Yes a 5 inch penis would feel different than a 9 inch one, but what your female friends are trying to say is that it doesn’t really matter what size it is, what matters is who it is attached. If the 5 inch penis is attached to a person they can grow with emotionally and physically and a 9 inch penis is attached to a person who treats them like dirt and doesn’t respect them, guess which size they will choose? Of course, a large penis on a lovable, caring guy is what every woman dreams of - he's the total package.