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Bringing Sexy Back… To
Your Bachelor Pad
Ever been embarrassed to bring a sexy lady back to your pad? You are not alone. Bachelors these days live in a
certain “state of mind” and that state usually translates into a basic, minimal, (and sometimes messy)
male-centered
home environment.But if the time has come when you are more ashamed of your pad than you are interested in the
women that you would like to bring there, then it’s time to “sexify” your place.
This is easier than you might think – and the end results will be worth it. Women invest a lot of hope in the
appearance of your home. The impression given by an organized, sexy and mature bachelor pad might mean the difference
between a lonely cold shower for you, and a steamy wild sleepover with her.
When you invite a woman in for a night cap, make no mistake – she is likely interested in more than just a cup of tea. While your intention might be to get to know her better (without her clothes on), her intention is likely to get to know you better by checking out your personal space.
It is imperative that you invest time in your pad now so that you will always be prepared for spontaneous visits from sexy ladies in the future.First things first – piles of junk are not sexy to women. You need to get organized and take stock of the clutter in your home.
Ask yourself some important questions… like are your clothes are on the ground because you can’t be bothered to hang them, or because there is a shortage of hangers? Do you enjoy watching towels dry on the furniture, or is your bathroom missing a convenient and happy place to hang wet towels? Are you always out of dish soap and forced to face a mountain of dishes in the kitchen sink? Spend some time regularly to organize your home – one afternoon a week is all it takes. Ensure that everything has a place to go and if it doesn’t than throw it out or invest in more furniture to keep it in.
Next you will want to re-arrange things in your bachelor pad so that it becomes a place for entertaining. This is not about beer and football parties with the boys, this is about creating an atmosphere that represents you and makes people feel comfortable and relaxed when they visit.
The TV should not be the centerpiece of the room, rather it should be in some sort of cabinet with doors that close so that it can be ignored when necessary. The same rule applies to the bedroom. If there must be a TV in there, then put it
somewhere discreet.
If you are on a tight budget, then simply invest in a throw that you can literally “throw” over the TV when you have company. On top you might want to place some decorative candles in natural manly fragrances such as musk, forest, spice or fruit scents. Avoid candles or aromas that are too overpowering or floral - the goal here is manliness, not pansy-ness.
If your bachelor pad is very minimal or boring, consider painting a wall or investing in some art. When it comes to choosing a paint colour, your decision will have to be guided by the shape and size of your home environment. Don’t be afraid to get some second and third opinions before you paint your entire place in your favorite shade of blue. If your place is fairly small, you might consider just painting one or two walls. If you already have lots of furniture, make sure that the colour that you choose will compliment the major pieces in the room.
The sexiest shades for your walls will be bright colours (like red hot!) or warm earth tones (like chocolate brown or moss green). Choosing art for the room is a subjective experience and entirely dependent on your personal preferences.
However, remember to try and avoid posters of things such as your favorite high school band, fast cars, big trucks, or scantily clad women. Also, don’t be afraid to buy some funky items for your space, they will always serve as good conversation starters. Antique stores or vintage shops are a good place to find unique items that will help to really spice up your pad.
Once you are organized and have done any of the necessary improvements to your space, then its time to focus on the details that will be most important when it comes to entertaining the ladies. The couch – is it clean and comfy? Are there throw pillows and blankets? The bed – have you invested in a decent mattress and respectable pair of sheets (the higher the thread count, the better), and do you make a point of washing your bedding regularly? The bathroom – do you always keep clean towels, hand soap, facial tissue and toilet paper on hand?More importantly, do you keep a stash of new toothbrushes and extra toothpaste in the house?
When it comes to cleanliness, organization and preparation, the small details can make all the difference to a sexy lady on her first visit to your bachelor pad. Don’t be afraid to make a list and regularly maintain and prepare the house for visitors. Once you are proud of the great environment that you have created in your home, you will be even more eager to share it with a special lady in the near future.
When it comes to sexifying your pad, the finishing touches are just as important as any others. Imagine yourself with a sexy lady, and make sure that everything in your place is ready to cater to your potential needs.
Have music available to be played in any and every room in the house and know which lighting will best set the mood for the evening. Make the most of any romantic views that you have, or prepare your balcony for a night under the stars. Have the fridge stocked with refreshing beverages, and emptied of all things foul
or expired.
Put your boy toys away, like the Nintendo games or your golf clubs, and make sure the adult toys are charged up and ready to go. These improvements to your personal space may sound like a lot of effort for one or two sexy evenings, but just wait and see…. once you bring sexy back to your bachelor pad you will want to do it over and over again, and hopefully, so will she.
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